How to Help Kids Prepare for your Photoshoot

I remember all the times I tried to get M ready for pictures. Let me just say it was anyone’s guess on how she would do. Would she cooperate? Will I get a decent picture with her? How do I manage her tantrums when I am paying for a photographer and have a small window of time to complete this session? Trust me. I have been there and I get it. 

Here are a few suggestions that I have come up with to help kids prepare for getting the photos taken. 

1. This is more for the parents. Try not to stress about the session. Children have a way of picking up on your anxiety and running with it. Remember that I am a professional, and I will be directing everything.  

2. In the days leading up to your session, start letting your kids know that they will be meeting with a friend who will be taking their pictures. Remind them that is going to be a lot of fun can go a long way to help kids feel better. It helps to prepare them so they know what to expect. 

3. If your session is later in the day (closer to sunset), it can help to have the kids take a nap later than normally would. This way, they won’t be as tired and grumpy before the session. 

4. For all those who get “hangry” I feel your pain. It is hard for anyone when they feel hungry. It is ten times worse for kids when hanger strikes. It helps to eat before your session, as well as bring some non-messy snacks to the session itself. 

5. I know I can remember a time when my “blankie” was the only thing that could help me feel calm or safe. Many kids feels the same way. Bringing their favorite toy or stuffy to session can work wonders with helping kids to relax.  

6. Dress according to the weather. Summer on the east coast if often akin to being wrapped up in a hot, wet blanket. It is sweaty and uncomfortable. If it is winter and we are doing an outdoor session, it is best to bring gloves, coat, hats, etc. we can always remove layers if we get too hot or you want a photo showing of your cute outfits. Nothing will disrupt a photos faster than a child who is too cold or hot. Trust me. I have learned this the hard way. 

7. Don’t forget your bug spray, especially if we are shooting out in nature. Being bit by hundreds of mosquitoes takes the joy out of just about everything.

8. Remember it is normal for kids to get restless and jittery. At some point, I am going to let them play and get their energy out.  

9. Relax! Have fun! And enjoy this moment with your little ones! Try not to stress. If you are relaxed, then your children are more likely to follow suit.